I'm a Kissaholic

Ok, I want to make something very clear before I go any farther. I am NOT talking about any person in particular. Not one. I'm talking about MY preferences with a generalized partner. Okay? Okay.

I love kiddie kisses.

I AM a kissaholic. I love kissing. Is that so bad? I love the little kisses that your kids give you on the cheek. I love the sloppy slobber kisses they give you on the lips as toddlers. I think those kisses, kid kisses are my favorite. Even as teenager and adults, I love kid kisses! It's a warm fuzzy feeling when you get kid kisses. Even if they aren't your kids. I love kisses from my kids most, but friends kids kisses, niece and nephew kisses, they are all awesome.

But, kisses with an adult partner, we'll call him/her the KP from here on out, THOSE are the best kisses.

I love the pecks on the lips. The simple hello's or goodbye's. I absolutely melt for kisses on the forehead. Even a kiss on the cheek makes me happy. I love kisses. But, those little pecks speak. They say "I care about you" and in some cases " love you". A tiny peck can speak volumes. They make me feel good. They make me feel cared for. And, they make me feel appreciated enough for the KP to trust their lips on my face. They make me feel like I mean something to someone. Even if that someone is just a friend. Actually, friend kisses are some of the best. Only a true friend will kiss you.

There's the sensual kiss. The one that says "I WANT you , right now!" Those are amazing. Or, can be. There are several types of sensual, or lust filled kisses. Personally, I'm not a fan of tight lipped kisses. The kind where your KPs lips are pulled so tight that it feels a lot like you're kissing a brick wall. When they do this, they usually tighten their tongues, too. So, it feels like a worm trying to push it's way into your mouth. There's NOTHING sexy about that. Soften up, people! Those are the best. I love soft kisses. Even if the urgency is there, your lips can still be soft, loose. They're passionate kisses that make me feel wanted. Dare I say, sexy, even. And, that's a rare thing for me. It's a deep, urgent, pressing, demanding kiss that I want in that situation. I want to KNOW that my KP wants me more than anything else at that moment. But, it's still not my favorite kind of kiss.Kiddie kisses top the list, but, the Love kiss....THAT one comes in second.

The "I love you more than anything on this Earth and would be ruined without you"  kiss. You know the one I mean. The kiss that tells you, no, SHOWS you that your KP feels everything that you are. That you are connected in an unbreakable way. The kiss that you feel in your very soul, and you swear that you can feel your KPs soul as well. The kind of kiss that melts reality, and leaves nothing but the two of you. Nothing else exists. It can be sensual or just loving, and it can last for hours. Just kissing for hours with no other thought than those of the person you're kissing, and how amazing it is to be able to feel how they feel about you. That's my second favorite kind of kiss. It's nearly indescribable. It's amazing. It's ...ahhhhhhh. 

Oh yes. I AM a kissaholic. Now, don't take that to mean I'll kiss anyone. I won't. I'm not a kiss whore! lol. But, I do love to kiss when I have the opportunity. I'll take it. Not with anyone, remember that. Besides, I'm married. So, I have only one KP. But, I kissed before we met, and I had my preferences already. I know what I like. Everyone should. And I'll tell you this, if you have a specific way you like to be kissed, go for it. Don't just settle with a kisser your not pleased with. Guide them. It is possible. Show them, lead them with your own kisses. You never know, you may find out that you're both a fan of soft kisses, or hard kisses, or the love kiss. You'll never know unless you try. So you know, I'm not telling anyone to go become a kiss whore! Work with what you have! LOL.